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In the name of Allah most gracious most merciful. 

Truthfulness and lying

   
Written by: SK.
Translated by Dr. Faheem Bukhatwa

 

07 Thil-Qada 1429 h

07 Novembe 2008 ac

    

Allah says: {This is a Day on which the truthful will profit from their truth; theirs are Gardens in Paradise under which rivers flow. They shall be therein forever. Allah is pleased with them and they are with Him. That is the great success.} 6:119.

 

The messenger (PPBU) said: {Be truthful, for truthfulness is with honesty and fidelity, and they are both in paradise. And be warned of lying, for it is with immorality, and both of them are in Hellfire. Ask Allah to grant you certainty, health and healing, for no one was ever granted anything which is better than certainty other than health. Do not be envious, and do not be hateful, and do not sever relationships, and do not plot or scheme or connive against one another. And be slaves to Allah brethrens, just as commanded by Allah}.

 

Islam is more than any other religion; in being against lying and in being more adorning to truthfulness. Allah say: {You who believe, fear Allah and be with the those who are truthful} 9:119. In fact, truthfulness is considered to be the key to honesty, and lying is the key to sin and immorality. The messenger (PPBU) said: {Truthfulness leads to honesty and fidelity, and honesty and fidelity leads to paradise. And Lying leads to sin, deceit and wrong deeds; and sin leads to Hellfire}. The messenger (PPBU) also said: {it is a great betrayal to talk to your brother and he is a believer of you, when you are a liar to him}.

 

In fact lying is one of the three signs of a hypocrite. And the three signs are: if he talks he lies; and if he promises he break his promise, and if he is entrusted he betrays. The messenger (PPBU) said: {There are many traits a Muslim can acclimatise or be accustomed to; except betrayal and lying.}

 

The messenger (PPBU) was asked: Could a Muslim be a coward? He said “yes”. He was asked: “Could a Muslim be mean or tightfisted”. He said “yes”. He was asked: “Could a Muslim be a liar?” ”. He said “No”.

 

Dear brothers, lying is cowardness, ignobility and an assault against Allah; deserving being cursed and being expelled from the mercy of Allah. Indeed there may be excuses for those who may be overwhelmed with fear and cowardness or be over careful when asked for a sacrifice. But, there is no excuse to those who take lying as a way of life used to deceive and cheat on people. Allah says: {Allah will not guide this who is a regular liar.} 40:28.

 

You faithful make your morals, ethics and character is the same as that of your prophet. And be certain that truthfulness was one of his facets. And it was also a character of the prophets sent before him. Any nation that was sent a messenger, that messenger was the most truthful individual in that nation. Prophet Muhammad (PPBU) was well known amongst his people of being the truthful and the trusted one. The messenger (PPBU) used to despise lying and liars. 3a-esha the wife of the messenger (PPBU) said: “No other character was more despised by the messenger as lying was. Whenever someone told him a lie; it stayed with him in his mind; until he heard that he made repentance”.

 

The messenger said: {In a vision tonight I saw two men who came and said to me: This whom you saw his cheek being cut open, he was a liar. He used to tell the lie, which is carried into the horizons. That’s what he gets done with him in the day of resurrection}.

 

Dear faithful, it is bad enough and shameful enough for this who lies is to be the target of Allah’s anger, fury and torment. The messenger (PPBU) said: {There are three in the day of resurrection whom Allah shall not talk to, shall not look at and shall not say a good word on their behalf, they shall have sever torture: an old man who commits adultery, and king who lies. And one who supports and provides for others but does it with arrogance and superiority}.

 

Belal and his brother Sohaib went to some Arabs family wishing to ask for their daughters for marriage. They were asked: Who are you two? Bilal said: “I am Bilal and this is my brother Sohaib. We were on the wrong track and Allah guided us. And we were slaves and Allah set us free. And we were poor and Allah made us rich. If you accept us for marriage, then all thanks be to Allah, and if your turn us back, then all praise be to Allah”. The people said: “You shall be accepted for marriage, and all thanks be to Allah”. When the two brothers left, Sohaib said to Bilal: Why didn’t you mention our action in the battles with the messenger (PPBU)? Bilal said: “Be quite, we were truthful, and the truth got us married”.

 

We ought to follow those who were taught by the messenger (PPBU), and use them as examples when we teach our children to adhere to honesty and truth, virtue, faithfulness and loyalty. And let parents be warned from lying to their children and getting used to it, even if it was to keep them quite when crying or to ease their anger. That will make the children loose their confidence and trust in what the parent say when they give advice.

 

Abdullah Ebn 3Amer said the messenger (PPBU) came to our house when I was a little boy, and I went out to play. But my mother wanted me to stay and she said to me: “Come here and I will give you something”. The messenger (PPBU) said: “What did you want to give him?” she answered: “some dates.” He said: “if you don’t give him; then it would be counted for you as a lie”.

 

One of the scholars, Sk. Abdul-Qadir Al-Kailani said that I have accustomed my self since I was young to the truth. And I left Mecca to Bagdad seeking education. My mother gave me 40 dinars to help with the costs. On the way we were faced with a gang rubbing the camel train and they took all animals and their loads and left the people standing. One of the rubbers going past me asked me: what have you got with you? I said: 40 dinars. (the equivelant of 40.000 now). He thought I was trying to be smart and make fun of him and he left me. Another man in the gang saw me and asked me too: what have you got with you? I said: 40 dinars, who took me to their chief. Who asked me the same and I told him the truth. He said: “What is it that makes you tell the truth?” I said: “I made a promise to my mother to be truthful. And I fear to break my promise to her”. The head of the gang became very fearful; and started screaming and tearing up his clothes, and said: “you fear betraying your mother’s promise, and I am not fearful of betraying Allah’s promise.” He then ordered to give back all that was taken. And he said: “I have just repented to Allah because of you”. The rest of the men in the gang with him said: “you were our chief in robberies, and today you are our chief in repentance.” And they all repented because of the mercy of the truth.

We ask Allah to give us knowledge which will be of benefit, and a good accepted deed. And all thanks be to Allah.

 

 

Notes:

  1. Adhan - The call to prayer.

  2. Ansar (or Al-Ansar): The inhabitants of the city of Al-Medina that received and supported the messenger (PPBU) when he immigrated from Mekkah in the very early years of Islam.

  3. Assalam Alaikum - The Islamic greeting, literately means: Peace be with you. Used when approaching or leaving. When used during approaching it will be like saying: I bring no harm to you . and when said during leaving somebody it will mean: No harm will come to you after I leave.

  4. Aya (or Ayah): is a verse of the Koran. It also means a miracle or a sign from God.

  5. Arafa (or Arafah or Arafat): is a mountain outside the city of Mecca that represents the climax of the Hajj worship. All doing Hajj must stay at this location on the same day.

  6. Badr - The place of the first significant battle between the Muslims and the pagans of the Quraish. It is located in Saudi Arabia.  

  7. Caliph - A Muslim ruler. See: (Khalifa) 

  8. Dajjal - Antichrist or the False Massiah.

  9. Dawah - The proliferation of Islamic teachings through word and deed.  

  10. Deen (Din) - Religion or way of life. 

  11. Duaa: a prayer in the form of talking to Allah; praising him and asking him for help.

  12. Fatwa - Legal verdict given based on the Qur'an (Koran) and the Sunnah which are the recorded sayings and deeds of Muhammad.

  13. Ferdose: is the highest level of the all the gardens of Eden or paradise.

  14. Fiqh - Religious law.

  15. Hadeeth: is something reported that the messenger have said. It includes all the speeches and ceremonies he gave. It is usually narrated or told by one of his companions. There is a list of hadeeths approximately 14000 that are reported and checked to be genuine. No more hadeeths are acceptably added to this list.

  16. Hajar - The Black Stone set into the corner of the Ka'aba in Mecca. It is said to be a stone from Heaven.

  17. Hajj - The pilgrimage to Mecca which takes place in the last month of the Islamic calendar.  One of the five pillars of Islam.

  18. Hasana or hasanas: is the reward for a good deed. a hasana is a point or a merit for a good deed.

  19. Hadith - The sayings and not deeds of the prophet Muhammad recorded by his followers.  Considered authoritative and perfect.

  20. Hajj: is the worship of pilgrimage.

  21. Hijra (or Hejrah): the event of the immigration of the messenger from Mekkah to Madina. This event marks the start of the Islamic calendar. the Islamic calendar has 12 months based on the lunar cycle, each is 29.5 days. Hijra is also used as a name for the Islamic dating system.

  22. Ibadah - Worship. All the words and deeds with which Allah is pleased. These deeds could be prayer and charity.

  23. Iblis - (Ibleese): On of Satan's names.

  24. Ibn (Ebn): the son of. Used by Arabs as part of an individual's name. Example: Ali whose father is Omar or the son of Omar, would be called: Ali Ibn Omar.

  25. Imam (or Emam)- The leader for a prayer. In the Shiaa sect, an Imam is the individual who has the religious authority.  

  26. Iman: belief or faith

  27. Injil (Enjeel) - The Bible. The book inspired to Jesus for the Christians.

  28. Islam - Submission, the religion of all the prophets of Allah culminating in Muhammad.

  29. Jannah - The heavenly garden, Paradise.  The place of the faithful in the afterlife.

  30. Jihad: is striving in the line of Allah in many forms. Includes a very wide scope varying from improving oneself to fighting a defensive war in protection of Allah's word. The greatest Jihad is the fight one's self against temptations. It also means "holy war."

  31. Jinn - Supernatural, invisible beings race of beings, below angels.  They were made from fire. Like humans, there amongst them are the faithful and the non beleivers and Jinn shall be judged on Judgment Day.

  32. Ka'aba: A cube shaped building in Mecca containing a stone laid there by Abraham and Ishmael. Some say Ka'aba was first built by Adam, and some say by Abraham. It is the holiest place for Muslims. It is where all Muslims face in their daily prayers. Ka'aba also makes a major part of the pilgrimage in a ritual known as Tawaf.

  33. Khalifa: is the Muslim ruler. Head of the Islamic empire. Exact translation: "Successor".

  34. Khutbah  - A sermon given in a Mosque, usually on Friday.

  35. Kufr - Denial or Disbelief. A term Muslims use for anyone who denies existence of Allah or the prophecy of Muhammed.

  36. Koran - Also spelled Qur'an.  The holy book of Islam revealed to Muhammad by Allah through the Archangel Gabriel.  Koran literally means "the recital."  It is the final revelation of Allah given to the prophet Muhammad. It consists of 114 surahs (or chapters.)

  37. Madinah - (Medinah): A city in the Arabian peninsula (in the country known now as Saudi Arabia). A city where the messenger had to immigrate to. Then it was called Yathrib.

  38. Masjid - A center for Muslim activity.  It is referred to as a mosque.

  39. Masiah - A sin, or a sinful act

  40. Mecca or Makkah: is the holiest city for Muslims. It contains the Ka'aba mosque with the famous black cubical shape. Mecca is the birth place of the messenger (PPBU).

  41. Mosque - A Muslim house of worship.

  42. Muhajir - (Muhajireen) Immigrant, one who leaves his home town due to lack of religious freedom. It was first used to describe early Muslims immigrating from Mecca to Median and Ethiopia.

  43. Muhammad - the final messenger and prophet of God whose message abrogated all previous revelations.  He received the Koran through the angel Gabriel over a 23 year period. Born in Mecca and died in Medina at the age of 63. His full name: Muhammad ibn Abd-Allah

  44. Muslim - One who holds faith to the religion of Islam.

  45. Nafilah: a voluntary prayer other than the five obligatory prayers; performed at any time.

  46. Nasara - Christians.  Nasrani: A Christian individual. Nasraniah: Christianity.

  47. Ommah: is the Arabic word for a nation. It usually refers to the Islamic nation unless otherwise specified.

  48. Paradise - Another word for heaven.  A garden of bliss, fruits, rivers and all forms of pleasures imaginable and imaginable. No suffering, disease or death. Service is provided by angels. All live  in it an ever lasting youthful life. Promised by Almighty Allah to all faithful, true Jews, true Christians and True Muslims. Paradise is one of two places every person will go to, either Paradise or Hellfire.

  49. PPBU (P.B.U.H.) : Peace and Prayers Be Upon him. A statement Muslims use any time they mention the name of the messenger or make a reference to him.

  50. Qadar - Fate. Preordainment is the teaching that all things, good and bad, are preordained to occur.

  51. Qadr - (night of Qadr): The night when the first revelation of the Koran took place. Most likely it happened during one of the last ten nights of the month of Ramadan. Or when the Koran was brought down to the nearest heaven in one go, and from there it was brought down in bits and few verses at a time over a period of 23 years. This night is considered the holiest night for Muslims with tremendous advantages.

  52. Qibla - The direction which Muslims turn for daily prayers, towards Mecca.

  53. Quraish - An ancient Arab tribe to which the messenger Muhammad belonged.

  54. Ramadan - The ninth month of the Islamic calendar which is the month of the fast. The holiest month in the Muslim colander.

  55. Salat - Prayers. Generally it covers all forms of worship, but more specifically refers to the Muslim rituals which is performed to worship Allah five times daily.

  56. Shiaa: A sect of Islam that teaches that a religion leader (Imam) should be the political ruler and must be direct descendants of the messenger (PPBU). Therefore, disapproving of all Muslim leaders who ruled After the messenger (PPBU) except Ali, the messenger's grandson.

  57. Shirk - Associating another god with Allah.  Or associating anyone or anything with Allah. Or using anyone or anything as a medium to Allah. The opposite of Monotheism or Tawheed.  

  58. Siam  or Soam- Fasting

  59. Sunni: is a the title of  those Muslims who are suppose to be following the life style of the messenger. This differentiates them from the Shiaa of Iran.

  60. Sunna (Sunnah): Is how the Messenger PPBU lived, what he did or said. It includes the way he dressed, ate, drank, prayed, interacted with other people and fought. Basically, sunnah is the life style of the messenger PPBU. It is considered the second source of legislation in Islamic laws and it is considered to be an important reference to be used for concluding arguments and disputes. It is also a title give to the main stream Muslims who make 90% if all Muslims.

  61. Surah - A chapter of the Koran.  

  62. Tawaf: part of the pilgrimage (Hajj) ritual. It involves walking round the Ka'aba Mosque in anti-clock wise direction a number of seven circles.

  63. Tauhid - Tawheed - Monotheism, in Islam is the teaching that there is only one God who alone is worthy of worship. The first requirement of becoming a Muslim. It is included in the testimony of faith for new Muslims when declaring that God is one: (No God but Allah)

  64. Taqwah - Proper fear and veneration of Allah.  A divine spark that enables the person to understand God.

  65. Taurat: The old Testaments and scriptures of Mosa.

  66. Ummah - the word means: a Nation. Usually refers to the Islamic nation unless otherwise stated.

  67. Umrah - (Amrah): A mini hajj. A Minor form of pilgrimage to Mecca. Unlike Hajj which can only be done on the 12th month of the Islamic year, Umrah can be performed at any time.

  68. Wathoo (wadoo): a washing up ritual done by Muslims before each of the five daily prayers known as ablution.

  69. Zaboor - The Psalms

  70. Zakat - The third pillar of Islam.  Alms giving, charity that is given to the poor.

 

 


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